*Attention* Moms Who Care Deeply about the Emotional Well-Being of their Families- Entrepreneurial, Professional, Executive, and Working Moms, Stay-at-Home Moms, Single Moms
Want to know how to handle your child’s emotional upsets and tantrums?
Parents Keep Your Cool: How to Effectively and Lovingly Respond to Your Child's Emotional Upsets and Tantrums
If you’re like most moms and dads I speak with daily, you know your child is awesome and there are so many moments together you enjoy and treasure.
Your biggest challenges occur when your child becomes emotionally upset. He yells in anger. She cries and screams. He retreats into silent withdrawal. She loudly demands she get what she wants. He cries as if his heart is breaking.
The difficult emotionally charged interactions occur with children of any age, whether she is 5 months old, 13 years or even 25.
These are the times when most parents struggle with their own emotions. I've had so many parents share with me their feelings of pain, guilt and frustration after losing their patience, yelling, saying and doing things they later regret.
Most people in our modern world grow up knowing more about money, math, and technology than they do about the world of emotions. So if you feel overwhelmed or frustrated or even disappointed with the power of your own emotions and your child’s emotions, you’re not alone.
Almost every parent I talk with struggles with this in one way or another.
How you respond to your child’s emotional upsets makes a profound impact to your child’s emotional well-being and your life-long relationship with him / her.
If you ignore them or simply wait hoping your child will out-grow them, you may be unintentionally limiting your child’s potential and damaging your relationship together…not only for today but for the rest of your lives together.
When your child gets emotionally upset, do you…
* Try different strategies, hoping this is the one that will work?
* Become impatient and struggle to keep from yelling yourself?
* Tiptoe around potentially upsetting situations, hoping you won’t set your child off one more time?
* Know there are times you shouldn’t give in, yet your child eventually wears you down?
* Wish your partner and you were more on the same page in handling these difficult situations?
* Feel guilty and sad for your child?
* Unsuccessfully try to get your child to calm down either by distracting and coddling him or by yelling and demanding she stop her crying?
* Feel overwhelmed and uncertain how to respond to these emotionally volatile situations so they don’t repeat?
* Feel embarrassed when you’re out in public and your child gets emotionally reactive?
When you look around at other parents and children, you may believe that repetitive emotional upsets are a normal part of childhood and the best way to handle them is to ride them out as best you can, hoping your child will outgrow them.
I’ve found that repetitive and frequent emotional upsets occur because parents do not understand how to work with their child’s emotions.
This makes a lot of sense because for the most part in our culture, we don’t learn how to handle our own emotions, let alone the emotions of the people we love. In fact, this is part of what makes your child’s emotional upsets so difficult for you. You love your child. You want the very best for her. When you see her struggling emotionally, it’s painful and upsetting to you.
The good news is that most repetitive emotional upsets and tantrums with children of any age can be prevented When you understand what is causing your child’s unhappy or angry feelings, then you can take positive, proactive action to remedy the situation so they don’t continue happening.
You see, not all tantrums and emotional upsets are the same. They have different causes and require a different response from you to find a solution.
How you respond to your child’s emotional upsets is important. What you say and do in these emotionally sensitive times profoundly affects your child’s self-confidence and success in life. It also affects the closeness and honesty of your relationship and communication together.
I’m sure it matters a lot to you to find a solution to these heart-rending and frustrating situations.
Imagine what your family life would be like if…
* You recognize what your child most needs and wants from you in these volatile situations.
* You feel confident knowing how to effectively and lovingly respond to his emotional upsets.
* The frequency of your child’s emotional upsets decreased dramatically or disappeared entirely.
* You go through a whole day, an entire week with few or no emotional upsets.
* You feel more relaxed around your child because your time together is more on an even keel.
*Your child’s eyes are sparkling and he feels happier and more confident.
* You love spending time with your child…even for all day!
Imagine for a moment how this would change your life and your family time together. How would fewer emotional upsets improve your relationship with your partner?
I’d like to share with you my personal secrets and strategies to recognize what kind of emotional upset your child is experiencing and how to powerfully and calmly respond to your child’s emotional pain and frustration.
Here is what is included in this one-time-only transformational teleclass:
# 1 90-minute class by phone
The first 60 minutes I’ll share with the things you need to consider to recognize what kind of tantrum / emotional upset your child is experiencing in a specific situation. Then, I’ll teach you the exact steps you need to take to effectively and calmly respond.
The last 30 minutes of the class will be Q & A. That’s right! A full 30 minutes in which I’ll answer as many of your personal questions and strategize with you about your unique situation as we have time for.
#2 Audio recording of the teleclass
Within 24 hours, you’ll receive a link to both listen to the class online or download into your iPod to listen at a time convenient to you. This means if you can’t be on the call live, you still receive my personal secrets to help you with your child's tantrums.
#3 A detailed template of how to recognize and respond to your child’s emotional upsets
When you sign-up for the teleclass, you’ll receive this easy-to-read and use template, which will be the foundation of your new approach to responding to your child’s emotional upsets. It will include the 5 different kinds of tantrums, how to identify each of them, and practical steps to respond in a loving, effective way. I’ll email this to you before our call.
I’m thrilled to share this valuable, life-changing information with you!
Most of all, I’m delighted to give all of this to you for only $49.
That’s right! Only $49 and your partner can participate for free!
This means you and he will be more on the same-page when you respond to your child’s tantrums. This in itself will dramatically improve your relationship with your partner, something I know is hugely important to you.
If your partner can’t be on the call live, you can simply share the audio recording and the template with him shortly after the class. Then discuss the ideas you learn and how to implement them together.
Here is the date and time of the class:
Date: Wednesday, July 21
Time: 6:30 – 8pm Pacific Time, 9:30 Eastern
Remember: The information I’ll share applies to your child of any age from 2 months to 20 years.
You may believe you need age-specific information to help you with your challenges with your child.
I’ve found that all children are the same when it comes to understanding and competently responding to their emotional needs. When you understand how to read and nurture your child’s emotional well-being, it applies for the rest of her life.
By learning these principles and skills now, you’ll be able to use them to bring out the best in your child and to nurture your relationship with her as she grows up, even when she is an adult.
Are you ready to learn how to keep your cool so you can easily recognize and lovingly, effectively respond to your child’s emotional upsets and tantrums?
I invite you to make this transformational information a part of your parenting tool kit today!
* Because I know the how valuable this information will be to you and the profound difference it will make it your life, I want you to sign-up for this teleclass risk-free. If for any reason you don't feel you receive the value you want,simply let me know within one week after the call and I will refund your investment in full.
I'm assured this online transaction is completely 100% secure, and after my information is submitted, I will receive an electronic receipt within a few minutes.
I so look forward to having you join us!
Love & Joy!
Connie
The Joyous Family™ Coach
Author, Speaker, Professional Family Coach
Legal Disclaimer: Every effort has been made to accurately represent our program and its potential. The testimonials and examples used are not intended to guarantee that anyone will achieve the same or similar results. Each individual's success depends on his or her motivation, willingness to grow, and ability and commitment to implement the information.
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