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Personal Note from Connie
New Article: “3 Simple Tips to Have More Love with Your Family”
Connie Recommends: Parenting Solutions Teleclasses
Watch for more information next week.
Personal Note from Connie
My big news for today is my new Parenting Solutions Teleclasses begin in March. I’ve been planning these for several months, and I feel now is the time.
There will be one teleclass monthly that will teach you results-driven strategies and skills about a specific area of challenge or concern for parents. Each class will include both information and extensive time for questions.
In case you don’t know, a teleclass is a class given over the phone and is somewhat like a conference call. You dial into a number (not toll-free) and then enter a special pin code. Once on the call, you can share your observations and questions and listen to everyone else.
The first teleclass will be on Tuesday, March 12 in the evening. Be sure to save the date!
The topic will be the most-requested challenge in my survey last November. I’ll tell you what it is next week, and I’ll be sharing valuable f.ree information prior to the class itself.
Watch for my announcement next week!
Happy trails!
To your Joyous Family!
Connie
P.S. A big, warm welcome to all our new readers! I look forward to getting to know you.
P.P.S. Do you know someone who is passionate about being a good parent or who might like a little help to create a more harmonious, fun, and easy relationship with their child? If so, would you please forward this email on to her?
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New Article: “3 Simple Tips to Have More Love with Your Family”
In honor of Valentine’s Day tomorrow and because I know we can all enjoy a little more love with our family, here are 3 simple actions you can begin today to make every day Valentine’s Day.
Tip #1: Every day think of one quality or skill you appreciate in each person in your family. Then pause for a few moments to enjoy how delightful you feel to enjoy this special quality of this person you love.
It can be as mundane as “I appreciate that my husband does the dishes every day” to as profound as “I love seeing how comfortable my son is being himself.”
Whatever you think of, be sure it’s something that genuinely feels good to you and then enjoy it in your heart. Hint: You will notice a smile lighting up your face.
Tip #2: Do one thing every day that will please at least one other person in your family.
Be sure to do this without any expectation of what the response will be. Simply do it because it feels good to you to express your love through your actions.
Sometimes these actions may be simple, such as getting someone’s favorite flavor of ice cream when you’re at the store, and others more complex and involved, such as planning a surprise outing.
Tip #3: Most important of all, do one thing for yourself everyday that makes you feel good.
Maybe it’s dancing to your favorite song, a night out to see a move, or even a day adventure by yourself. It could even be 10 minutes admiring your garden or listening to the birds.
Often the most simple can be the most magical and fulfilling.
There you have it! 3 simple, totally-do-able actions you can take to create more love in your family. If tackling all 3 at once seems like too much, then start with one of these tips. Do it for a week or two until it becomes a part of your life and then add the second one of your choosing.
Having more loving feelings and interactions with your family is not really that complicated.
If you’re having trouble with any one of these, be gentle with yourself and begin at a simple level.
For example, if your teenage son has been frustrating and difficult for what seems like forever, it’s probably going to take some digging to think of even one thing you can appreciate about him. Choose something small like the color of his eyes or a memory from childhood.
Simple small actions can create amazing beauty and joy in your family. Simply look at the mountains to see what simple small actions can create.
Joyous Valentines Day to you and your family!
What are you going to do? Let me know in the Comments below!
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Connie Recommends: Parenting Solutions Teleclasses
Monthly teleclasses focusing on important parenting challenges and concerns.
The first one is Tuesday, March 12 at 6:30 Pacific Time. Be sure to mark your calendars. I promise it will be on a topic of importance to every parent. You won’t want to miss it!
Watch for more information next week.
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