I’m in Libya!!

I’m here and I’m delighted! Much more Westernized than I expected. Similar energy to other Third World countries done in a Libyan style. Frontier feeling. Nice group of Brits – 7 of us plus 2 guides and a security person, although he wouldn’t intimidate me if I wanted to cause trouble. Kinda like the 2 guys with the sling shot in Guatemala who said they were protecting Doug and me several years ago.

Thrilling when we flew in over the Mediterranean and I saw Africa for the first time. An exotic land out of a storybook.

We walked around the medina – old town- before dinner. Beautiful mosques and my beloved arches everywhere.

Tomorrow evening we fly south into the Sahara and then camp in the desert the next 4 nights. I know I’m going to have fun!!!

I’ll write again when we return. I am in good hands.

A Day of Profound Encounters in Holland

Today was awesome! I did exactly what I planned and went to the North Sea. It was overcast and no rain or wind.  I walked the beach about 4 miles round trip. Loved being on the North Sea!

My day was a series of encounters – from the interesting to the fun to the difficult and challenging to the profoundly heart-touching to the ones that helped me grow. Actually all of them did that, including the tiny little snail I met at the side of the trail in the dunes, as she moved herself along about 1/4 inch at a time with no sense of rush and urgency. She reminded me of the horses – accepting wherever they are and whatever they are doing at the moment without judgment or resistance or desire to be somewhere else.

Every encounter was a story, which I’m sure I will share in the coming weeks and months.

Tomorrow -Saturday – is the Big Libya Day!  I have my train tickets and plan already set to get to the airport tomorrow morning. I fly out at 10:30am.

I met a man on the beach today who has been to Libya 2 or 3 times on business. He said there are so many police in Tripoli that it is one of the safest places I can go. Excellent! Interesting how many people have said they thought Libya would be dangerous. I can certainly understand why based on the media and international news.

I’ll write more as soon as I can. We leave to go camping in the desert on Monday evening.

Blessings to you all!

I love Amsterdam!

I am loving Amsterdam! It is the most relaxed, friendly cosmopolitan city I have ever experienced! Everything seems to be on a small scale compared to the States. Small streets, small cars, small homes, intimate, small restaurants. Bicyclists everywhere – all without helmets. It feels leisurely compared to the SF Bay Area.

I have experienced so much in the last two days. I’ll give you a quick rundown. BTW, I haven’t experienced jet lag at all! The techniques I’ve developed worked wonderfully.

I’ve met so many friendly people, all willing to take the time to help me, to talk and laugh with me. This includes the wonderful couple with whom I am staying. Jelmar and Annette are amazing!

Wednesday was a beautiful fall day here with many moments of sun. I walked all the way downtown and back – at least an hour each way plus all my side paths and detours- so I was pretty tired by the end of the day.

My visit to Anne Frank’s house was much more interesting and compelling than I anticipated. Her story was much more profound being here, and I appreciated the questions they raised about the freedom of speech and what should and should not be allowed. They made no judgments – just raised thoughtful questions in a multimedia experience at the end of the visit.

I love all of the canals, many with cute houseboats. There is water everywhere. I also love all the small, intimate ethnic cafes and shops. Delicious bread. I am surrounded with an unlimited choice of ethnic foods and everything I’ve eaten has been nourishing and delicious to my body and my soul.

Today – Thursday – I slept in until 9:15 after a very sound sleep of almost 10 hours. Then went to the Van Gogh Museum, which was a short walk. His art is interesting when seen in chronological order and his story is even more compelling. Very inspiring really, even though it had a tragic ending. He was so courageous to follow his dream to be a painter and to leave a legacy of his painting that expressed real human emotion.

He painted for the last 10 years of his life without any previous painting experience or training. In, fact, he taught himself! As I walked through this museum honoring his work, I was touched that his dreams came true, even though he didn’t live to see it. This museum is one of the most-visited in all of Amsterdam and people from all over the world come here to see his work and relate to this complex man. If you haven’t read a detailed account of his life, I invite you to do so.

Then I ventured downtown via the tram and made my way over to the famous Red Light District. I was definitely out of my element! If you visit Amsterdam, you have to visit the Red Light  District. Even here I felt totally safe and I did see the lovely Old Church, which is the oldest building in Amsterdam. One highlight of the Red Light was a store that sold exclusive condoms. I’ve never seen such creative and funny ones. There was the deep sea diver, the elephant, a skull, Big Ben, plus many more I can’t recall right now. I did take a photo to help me remember.

I had a delicious Thai dinner – it was comfort food for my soul.

Tomorrow I’m taking the train out of town to the North Sea coast and then on my return stopping in the small town of Haarlem for some sightseeing. There has been virtually no rain the last 3 days and tomorrow they are expecting rain most of the day. I’m going anyway. I love Mother Nature in her raw power and I can always opt to get inside whenever I want. Plus I’m borrowing a raincoat since the wind at the sea would probably destroy my umbrella!

I LOVE experiencing other countries! It’s always easier and more wonderful than I imagine when I’m planning my adventure. Everywhere I go I meet interesting people, most of whom are heart-touchingly kind and friendly. Being a global citizen enriches my life in so many ways and makes me a wiser, more understanding person.

Happy trails to you all!

Does Academic Pressure in Kindergarten Make a Difference?

Excellent research-based article in the Harvard Review about the value of academics in Kindergarten. What works is supporting children in play and their natural development.

We can trust children. All the academic efforts in the early years do not help children become more capable or to be more advanced academically than children who followed their natural internal motivation and learned through play.

You can read the article here.

Getting Your Child Out the Door in the Morning – Most Common Parenting Mistake

If getting your child out the door in the morning is a regular challenge, you’re probably unintentionally making this common mistake: nagging and reminding your child of the things he needs to do – often at the expense of your own happiness and peacefulness.

Every morning as you go through this repetitive pattern with your child you probably feel frustrated, annoyed and possibly even some anger. These feelings make perfect sense given what’s happening between you and your child.

Repetitive reminders don’t work because after hearing the same messages over and over, contrary to what you may believe, your child often stops hearing you. He hears, “Blah – blah – blah.” Your words are like a broken record.

The most powerful antidote to end your morning struggle is for you to develop a clear plan that works for you and that includes your child in a caring way and then to consistently follow-through.

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