Going with It!

Last night a coaching client shared a perspective I think is brilliant, and I want to share it with you. We’ll call her Sharon.

Over the weekend, Sharon called me with a crisis in her relationship with her boyfriend whom she has been with for almost a year. I worked with her to explore her upset more deeply and to gain a more realistic perspective of her situation. By the end of our call, she felt calmer and committed to taking good care of herself through responsible action.

Last night we had our regular session. When I asked Sharon how she was doing she said, “Good.”

I was delighted to hear the strength in her voice. “That’s great!” I responded.

Sharon lightly replied, “Yeah, I’m feeling good. I’m not questioning it. I’m just going with it.”

Wow! “I’m not questioning it. I’m just going with it.” How many times do we question our feeling good and bring ourselves down emotionally with our worries?

Sharon had reasons she could have felt badly about her situation, but she was taking good care of herself and choosing to feel good. We always have reasons to feel upset about our life circumstances, and we always have wonderful reasons to feel joyous and blessed. It’s all in our point of view.

I encourage us all to make the choice Sharon made—to not question feeling good. To just go with it and enjoy the ride.

Greetings from Kyrgyzstan

It’s
Monday morning here. We met our guide, Dom, a man of Italian descent, and we
connect with the group at noon for lunch.

Our trip has been filled with serendipitous encounters and a flow that works
wonderfully. One of these was meeting a 23-year-old man at a grocery store. His
name is Igor. He was born in Bishkek and is of Russian descent. He went to Las
Vegas as a foreign exchange student when he was 16 and has been studying in
California ever since. He speaks excellent English and has CA energy.

He drove us around some yesterday morning. We went to the Osh Market, which is
pretty different from Latin America markets–stalls with beautiful spices,
dried fruits and nuts, much less fruits and veggies. I loved it!

We had a little rain the other night with some lightning. All of a sudden all
the lights went out everywhere. A few minutes later we heard a knock at our
door, and the hotel staff brought us a candle. The electricity came on soon
after.

Bishkek is such an interesting blend of several cultures, all moving into
modern Western ways. It’s not completely made the transition so it’s like a
gangly puppy, learning how to walk in its new and bigger body.
The people are very sweet and kind to us, although at first they may appear
stand-offish and somewhat unhappy. Who knows what’s really happening for them?

Time to meet the rest of the group. We head out on our adventure we’ve come
half way around the world to experience. Apparently all the rest except two
have already been out on the trails. Our group will have two stallions joining
us who have not been ridden much this year. Should make for an interesting
dynamic. We will ride the same horse for the entire trip, which sounds great to
me.

The Beginning!

We are at the beginning of my adventure into blogging and I don’t want to go on this adventure alone.  I want to know what you think, how you feel, what you want to hear about, what is important to you and what isn’t.

Thank you for going on this journey with me.  We’re sure to have a grand time!