A Profound Encounter

Today we visited the Angkorian temple of Angkor Thom, a large complex of several unique temples north of Angkor Wat, the "mother of all temples." Toward the end of our time here, we visited the Terrace of the Leper King, a rather uninteresting-looking platform with a headless statue on the top. On the south side, these is a hidden terrace about 4 feet wide that winds through four tiers of well-preserved stone carvings.

As we wound our way along the terrace, we came to a man sitting on the ground missing both feet and much of one leg, a victim of landmines. He was begging for money, and I turned my head away and looked down, feeling extremely uncomfortable. Not wanting to look and see and acknowledge.

Around another bend, we found another man with virtually no legs at all; and we hurried past, wanting to ignore his humanity and pain. After a few feet, I said to Orion, "We have to figure out how we want to handle and respond to these people injured by landmines."

After a few moments of discussion, we reversed our direction and gave each man some money, for which they were both heart-touchingly grateful, responding with huge warm smiles and bowing. We felt so much joy and love connecting with these courageous, heart-centered men.

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One of the men, the man with short stumps for legs, began to talk with us in clear English, telling us about the landmine he stepped on in 1987 ago when he was 24 and was fighting against the Khmer Rouge. His name is Ontai. Every day he rides his hand-pedaled, 3-wheeled bike 1.5 kilometers to come to this place to beg. He lifted his sleeve and showed us his powerful muscles. He was so loving and so appreciate of our financial support and our company. We bid him a warm farewell.

Before leaving this temple complex, we visited Ontai again, taking him another dollar and the best of the three apples we had with us. He smiled warmly when we returned and took the apple, asking the name of this fruit in English. We told him, "Apple", and he repeated it after us. P1230228

We visited a few more minutes and took photos of each of us with him. We then bid him a final good-by as we wished each other happy lives.

As we walked away, I glanced back briefly and saw him cupping the apple in both of his hands and looking down at it intently. I heard him say quietly, "Apple," as we walked away.

As we left the hidden terrace and walked back out into the bright light and warmth of the day, my eyes filled with tears.

Greetings from Phnom Penh

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What an amazing experience Orion and I are having! Phnom Penh is a very mellow tropical capital city. Lots of mopeds and motorcycles and tuk-tuks. And palm trees everywhere, but especially along the Tonle Sap–a river that joins the Mekong River near our hotel. There is a beautiful park along the river with international flags blowing in the gentle breeze.

The weather is WARM, lovely warmth after the recent cold in CA. It’s pretty humid, and we’re doing just fine with the temp. We had the air con on last night in our hotel.

The food is DELICIOUS! And very inexpensive. Tastes similar to Thai with lots of lemon grass.

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We love our hotel. It’s alittle more pricey for Cambodia than we’d prefer to pay, and it has great atmosphere and is quiet and comfortable with beautiful colonial wood work in our room. There’s also an 11-foot or so python in the garden…in a cage.  🙂

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Today we visited the National Museum which is an architecturally beautiful building and the Royal Palace which has lots of very ornate art and architecture to see. In the Silver Pagoda, we saw a life-size gold Buddha with 9500 diamonds in it, the largest of which is 25 carats! It was breath-takingly exquisite.

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We also visited Tuol Sleng Museum, the site of much torture and imprisonment of the Cambodian people who were believed to oppose Pol Pot and the Khmer Rouge. It was a Very powerful and at times horrifying experience for us to visit here.         
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Tonight we’re seeing a couple of films in English at the Mekong Restaurant next door to the internet place–50 cents per movie. One of the films is about the history of the Khmer Rouge and the second is about the land mines in Cambodia. Not uplifting, fun topics, but important parts of the Cambodian experience and culture.

Tomorrow we leave for Siem Reap, the city near Angkor Wat. It’s a six hour bus ride for $10. We’re taking the luxury bus with hostess, water, bathroom on board, air con. We’re excited to be going.

I’m loving it and being with my son Orion wonderful.

Exploring Beijing

Two days in Beijing means I have to choose my highest priorities. The Divine worked with me to easily give me everything I most wanted and more. 🙂

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Going to the Great Wall is pretty much an all day undertaking, wherever you go to see it. The hostel at which I am staying has its own tour to the Secret Wall. They were right. No other tourists in sight, spectacular vistas of The Wall, and a delicious vegetarian lunch afterwards. What more could I want? The most breath-taking part is in the vistas as The Wall snakes its way over the top of the ridges and disappears into the far distance.

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I also had an amazing, unexpected tour through the hutong area of Beijing. The hutong area is Old Beijing, with narrow streets and many of the cities poor living there now. I wanted to visit this area, and didn’t think I would have time. As fate would have it, as I was walking out of the Heavenly Temple area, a man with a bicycle with a two-wheeled cart attached behind asked if I wanted a ride. At first I said, "No." But when he asked he again, I decided to take a chance and see if he could safely take me through the traffic to Tiannamen Square.

As we pulled out into the traffic, I asked him to be careful. He nodded his head "Yes" although I’m not sure he really knew what I said. In reality, I was probably safer with him than walking there on my own. He KNOWS this city!

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To get to Tiannamen Square, he took me through the hutong area and showed me all the sights there, including old Chinese characters written on doors and ancient, worn sculptures. He even took me a famous Peking duck restaurant in this area that had photos of international dignitaries who had eaten there, including Al and Tipper Gore!!

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The last morning here I walked to the Forbidden City, which is so immense and ornate it is tough "to get my mind around it." The Chinese emperors who lived here during the later dynasties lived a life that is hard to imagine. Just think as opulent as you can and you’ll still be thinking much smaller and less than it is in reality. It was a fun way to spend the morning!

I’m feeling pretty tired about now, and I’m glad to be going home to my husband, Orion and Nichola, and my life in California. I’ve played hard and explored and had experiences beyong my wildest imagination. I am so grateful for the abundance in my life and to have shared this journey with you.

Shanghai

Shanghai…first I had planned to be here for 4 days. The cruise took two
of those days. Then a cancelled flight back from the Gorges means I only had a
half-day in this fast-paced modern city, which is the largest in all of
China–about 14,000,000 people.

It’s about 11 PM Thursday evening, and I just got into my hotel after a
fun, fulfilling afternoon and evening in Shanghai. For me it was the
quintessential Shanghai experience. This is good since I fly to Beijing at 8 AM
tomorrow morning.

I met the quintessential woman from New York City while we
were both looking for Yuyuan Gardens. We found the gardens, did a little Xmas
shopping, had a delicious vegetarian dinner at a small, not-so-fancy restaurant
for about $2.25 each.

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We then took the world famous night cruise on the Huang Po
River with beautiful, spectacular citylights on both sides of the river.
Shanghai is warmer than Xian since it is on the coast plus the sights were so
beautiful so we stayed outside, even though the boat was heated.

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Pc140633Then about 8:30 PM, we went to the famous Peace Hotel, formerly the Cathay
Hotel in the 1930’s and 40’s during the time when Shanghai was a haven of
scandal and immorality. The inside of the hotel is much as it was then. It
reminded me alot of the architecture of buildings I saw in Havana in 2000. There
is still a jazz band of Chinese men playing music from that era. They were good
and played songs my mom and dad loved in their teens…"Let Me Call You
Sweetheart", "Autumn Leaves" and so many more.

I had my perfect Shanghai experience all in abouty 8 hours. Amazing! 
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Good Bye to Xi’an

Images from Xian…I am now back in Xian at the Cross-Cultural Solutions home base where the heat works wonderfully, there is plenty of hot water, and the food is delicious and healthy. It is time for me to leave the program and Xian and to travel on my own for a few days.

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Jerome-Cross Cultural Solutions China Program Director, Committed, Heart-felt, Amazing

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Anne and Jocelyn–Assistant Directors, Fun, Insighful, Extremely Capable

I went out for a short walk in the park near our home base. It was idyllic…

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parents and grandparents who wait daily for their children to get out of school

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a small group of singers and musicians playing traditional Chinese instruments playing and singing on a small hilltop surrounded by trees and rocks,

smiling and admiring a Chinese woman’s grandchild

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talking with a young woman and her 6-year-old son, "the teacher gives my son too much homework, I think. My son needs time to play so we come here to the park. Many parents think the teacher gives too much homework, but no one says anything to the teacher."

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young and old people walking and strolling together

a group of 7 or 8 elderly men playing a card game

 

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the apartment building where we live on the 8th and 9th floors.

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I treasure this beautiful city and people of Xian. My heart has been deeply touched by the people here. Jerome, the director of the Cross-Cultural Solutions program in Xian is brilliant, kind, generous and magnificent. I feel so grateful and blessed to have experienced this city so deeply.