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Do you ever stop to consider why kids do and say such mean things to each other? Most parents I talk with about this question shrug their shoulders and reply, ‘I don’t’ know” and dismiss them as ‘mean kids.’
If you’ve been following this series, you know the bully is not the ‘bad guy.’ I find when you simplify things to their most basic and most essential, you discover there are two underlying causes to the bullying trouble.
Here is the last in the series:
Do you ever stop to consider why kids do and say such mean things to each other? Most parents I talk with about this question shrug their shoulders and reply, ‘I don’t’ know” and dismiss them as ‘mean kids.’
If you’ve been following this series, you know the bully is not the ‘bad guy.’ I find when you simplify things to their most basic and most essential, you discover there are two underlying causes to the bullying problem. I share these with you in the last two videos (each less than 5 minutes) of my series.
Here is the next to last one:
Just a quick note to let you know I’ve posted new videos in my series “Myth-Busting Bullying.” I hope you have had chance to watch the first three in the series. If not, I’ve listed the links to those videos at the end of this email.
The Good News about bullying is that many parents, educators and community leaders care deeply about the high price of bullying to a child’s self-esteem and are taking action to try to stop this problem that keeps growing.
The Bad News is that many of their efforts are based on faulty understanding about children, bullying, it’s causes and what to do about it. Well-intentioned experts are doing the best they can, yet much of their attention is on the ‘bully” and the “bystanders,’ and their strategies are often based on false assumptions about how to prevent bullying.
In today’s two videos, I share 3 common strategies to stop bullying between children, yet each one has limited effectiveness.
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If you have questions or concerns about bullying and you want practical, do-able strategies that work, you’ll love my class “How to Bully-Proof Your Child and What to Do If It Happens.”
Click here to get more info and register now!
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If you haven’t had a chance to watch the first two videos in the series, here are the links:
Myth-Busting Bullying: How Big a Problem Is It Really?
Myth-Busting Bullying: What’s It Really All About?
Myth-Busting Bullying:The Bully is Not the Bad Guy
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Here is the first video: Myth-Busting Bullying: These Strategies Don’t Work
Here is the 2nd video: Myth-Busting Bullying: Make More Rules and Policies?
Bullying is so intricately tied to how we relate to one another, how we perceive one another, that it is important for every parent to have a clear understanding of the dynamics and causes of bullying.
Today’s video introduces key insights into the relationship between the ‘bully’ and ‘victim’ and how we as parents, educators and society respond to this limiting dynamic.
You’ll discover new ways of perceiving and understanding the relationships between all people of all ages, including your own painful beliefs about situations where you have been bullied..
The video is below.
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If you’d like to know what you can do to empower your child to be more confident with her peers and in other social situations, I invite you to join me for my new teleclass “How to Bully-Proof Your Child and What to Do If It Happens.”
This video series about Myth-Busting Bullying is the beginning content of the class in which you will discover:
Click here to register and get more info.
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If you haven’t had a chance to watch the first two videos in the series, here are the links:
Myth-Busting Bullying: How Big a Problem Is It Really?
Myth-Busting Bullying: What’s It Really All About?
Has anyone ever told you that you were doing something ‘bad,’ and you were just doing the best you could at the time? Let us know in Comments below.
I hope you’ve had a chance to watch the first video in my series about “Myth-Busting Bullying. If you didn’t get to watch it, here it is again:
Myth-Busting Bullying: How Big a Problem is It Really?
If bullying is a concern for you and you’d like to know what you can do – Yes! You can make a big difference for your child! – I invite you to sign-up for my new teleclass “How to Bully-Proof Your Child and What to Do If It Happens.”
This class is on Wednesday, September 25. I promise you will come away with more clarity and feeling empowered by what you can do immediately to help bully-proof your child.
Click here to sign-up and get more info.
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The 2nd video in my series “Myth-Busting Bullying: What’s It Really All About?“, explores the following areas:
In this short video (less than 5 minutes), you’ll be surprised by what you discover, and it will give you some new ways of perceiving and thinking about bullying.
What experiences have you or someone you love had with bullying? Please share in Comments.
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